Some women are great at communicating their needs but unfortunately many are not. Women are great at communicating between females but not necessarily great at asking for what they want. My wife falls into this category. It’s funny I’ve seen my wife in action at work and she is awesome at telling people what she needs but when she gets home she expects me to intuit through telepathy how to meet her needs. We’ve been to therapy and it helped quite a bit but still there will be times I’m like I can’t just guess what you want, you need to tell me. She has said that many women were brought up to expect men to do everything except “female” stuff. She is a self avowed feminist so it’s strange sometimes.