I think I mentioned this in a different article you wrote but maybe shut off your dating apps and just go out and meet people?!?! You know the definition of insanity? Right? Dating apps are like all social media except worse. It’s meant to hook you into the fantasy you’ll meet the love of your life there. Meeting women through work and friends and social circles they are likely prescreened because the already match much of your criteria. I met my wife in a hiking club because we had those shared interests it significantly narrows down the pool. Unless you enjoyed all those 87 dates and the time suck that went with them, then go back to that but you are never going to fix dating apps.