I knew a Jeremy when I was younger in my 30's. This guy were so attractive, they literally spent most of their waking time fighting off women. I saw firsthand what it's like when he walked into a bar and women would just come up to them like flies on sh-t. He had to put zero effort into finding women and it went to his head. He never was in a long term relationship, always seemed to be with the most attractive educated women but it was a turnstile. It's unfortunate but no reason to compromise what you want. Dating is hard enough that's why it's better to get the ground rules out of the way early so you can either keep going or move on to the next one.